For you women, no matter how much a man loves you will mean nothing, if he never gives you certainty by making you lawful in the marriage bond.
Because love is sacred, so if it is still woven into a bond that is not certain, its halalness is not love, but mere lust.
What’s the meaning of the word “dear” if it’s love that makes you despicable in front of your Lord
Then don’t be happy when he is faithful to keep love for you, because what is the meaning of being loyal if he never takes you out of the wrath of God.
What is the use of the word “love” if it is love that ultimately makes you humiliate in front of your rabb, and not the loyalty and care of love that you are proud of will only be in vain?
So be wise to guard your heart, lest you be enslaved to false love, because those who truly love you will definitely not come with only words and promises.
What’s the use of the word “darling” if it’s love that finally makes you helpless in front of Allah
What’s the use of the word “dear” which is often offered cheaply to you every time, if it is love that ultimately makes you powerless in front of Allah.
Because true love cannot be served with mere attention to words, but is served with sincerity to make you completely his in a lawful bond.
If it’s love, he should have the courage to ask your father’s permission, not even make your father sin
Believe me, if he really loves you, he should have dared to ask your father for permission, not the other way around by making you disobey your father for dragging him into sin.
Love is not enough just with words and promises, because it takes action, it definitely justifies
Really love is not enough just with words and sweet promises, because true love requires what is called action, it must justify.
For that, you should not want to be tied up in meaningless beautiful words, because the proof he really loves you is when he dares to shake your father’s hand and then say “qabiltu …”.
Know, even betraying will be easy for him, if to Allah alone it is easy to betray
And know, no matter how loyal he is to you, it is possible that he will betray, because logically he betrays Allah alone, let alone only you who are actually His servants.
Therefore, women, don’t believe what a man says even though he has been loyal to you for a long time, if until this moment he has not justified you in a definite “marriage” bond, because this type of love is real love.
Article Source: Humairoh.com